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Make Any Girl Fall in Love
Advice by: Demario
Place: Long Beach, Washington, USA
This article is for guys who want to make themselves magnetic to the girl they find really adorable but just can't get enough. It takes you through the process of how you can get that girl and fortunately or unfortunately have a lot more women drooling over you by the end of it.
The Perfect Girl...
Every now and then as guys, we come across the perfect girl who we think is so special. Each of us has had that special girl in our lives. She has the sweetest personality, dazzling smile which makes her face glow, amazing hair that drives you crazy when she runs her hand through her hair. You've seen her in college, in school, at work, a hobby center or somewhere out there. You just can't get enough of her.
However, you find that she dates the more "adept" guys... How on earth do you get that one girl to like you?
Your Attitude & Mindset...
First you need to understand that a woman finds herself attracted to a man not because of his looks, but his personality. On the other hand, men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks making them think that's what women are looking at too. And so often we wonder that how could that hottie move around with a guy like him, he doesn't even match her standard. Well, an ideal man is an alpha male who is not afraid to take the lead. He is confident of what he is doing regardless of the fact that he isn't a Brad Pitt and he gets what he wants!
You should come from a mindset of high value. You shouldn't come across to girls as desperate or needy. The implication of this means that you need to make the girl feel that she has earned you.
When you come across women, you need to have an attitude of a strong male personality. The best attitudes to throw around would be ones which feature in you "nonchalance" and
"non-attachment" to whether she likes you or she does not. Well, if she does like you then it doesn't get better. But if she doesn't, you have to show that there are a million other girls out there who are more than amazing compared to her.Start training yourself and your mind from this moment. Don't underestimate yourself. You have to get this clear: She is not a challenge for me, I am a challenge for her. Place a high value on yourself. I keep reiterating this because in the presence of that special girl, every guy tends to wag his tail and sticks his tongue out like a hungry dog. Don't show you are desperate come what may!
Start with building your social network. Don't be afraid, you are not gonna freak out any girl if you just want to be friends with her. You aren't even flirting, just friends! That's it! Women are easy and friendly, so keep your inhibitions away and be fearless. After all you have set yourself high on a pedestal. Believe in that fact. Make friends with as many women as you can.
Abundance of Women...
As you start building your circle, try to penetrate into her social network too if you can. Out of all these women that you befriend, date as many women as you can... don't restrict yourself to
dating only "that one special girl." You are gonna have her and all this exercise that you are doing will only get you there.Having an abundance of women in your life will start solving your problem. You will get her attention. You will see how that girl starts responding towards you differently. She will be intrigued with your personality. She will want to get to know you as she sees your strong personality. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon. The phenomenon is stronger in women than in men. It causes her to get indirectly attracted to you.
Lets take a common example. We have all noticed that a guy who has got 4 babes sitting at his table grabs the attention of all your female friends. They all drool over him. Though they may say mean things about him or joke about him while they are in the group, secretly each of those girls has already developed an attraction towards that guy. You have to aim to be that guy. It doesn't happen overnight. As I said, you start building your social circle, start dating women, have a mindset of abundance and then it all starts to take shape.
Now get her! ... summary
1. It's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to have powerful feelings for her.
2. Always remind yourself that there are millions of other women out there who are just as wonderful as she is.
3. Place yourself high and be nonchalant and non-attached. Believe you are showered with an abundance of women. Think that she has to earn you and not the other way round.
4. Keep off feelings of desperation and neediness. You will eventually get what you want.
5. Build your social circle, hang out with as many women as possible. Date more women without going mad after that one girl. Penetrate into her range finally and she'll have all her might focused on achieving you.
Remember these secrets. Start from this moment and don't underestimate yourself based on your looks or anything else like that. You will eventually see that you won't just attract that one girl who you think is your "perfect woman", but you will have built a personality that will automatically start drawing a ton of other women to you like a magnet!
Talk to Any Stranger Girl
Advice by: Demario
Place: Long Beach, Washington, USA
How to Talk to A Stranger?
This article is for men who find it awkward to go up to women and make conversation. It takes you through a process that most successful men follow when they approach women. It makes you realize how easy it is if you just follow a few basic rules.
You walk in public by a random stranger girl who interests you and it catches your attention. You want to go speak to her. Like most men out there, you bother too much what you are gonna say and how she is gonna react. You wonder if you are gonna freak her out and if she will consider you to be a jerk.
This article is for men who find it awkward to go up to women and make conversation. It takes you through a process that most successful men follow when they approach women. It makes you realize how easy it is if you just follow a few basic rules.
You walk in public by a random stranger girl who interests you and it catches your attention. You want to go speak to her. Like most men out there, you bother too much what you are gonna say and how she is gonna react. You wonder if you are gonna freak her out and if she will consider you to be a jerk.
Stop! All that just drowned your confidence and your prospects with the girl even before you started doing anything. Worse is that by the time you gather courage to speak to her, she'll take off and you miss an opportunity. You need to act quickly as soon as you see a girl that interests you. Go right up to her and start a conversation.All right, so how do you approach?
The key here is that you have to keep it casual. Don't make her think you are "actually" approaching her. Walk up to her confidently with a relaxed body language and in a clear, resonating yet casual tone, pop up your question.
So what's your question gonna be like?
Look around at the surroundings or understand the situation/theme of the place and pick a question. The key here is that you have to ask an open-ended question. If you ask her a yes/no question, it ends right there! So when you walk up to her and she looks at you expecting you to say something interesting, drop it down and make it simple.
The key here is that you have to keep it casual. Don't make her think you are "actually" approaching her. Walk up to her confidently with a relaxed body language and in a clear, resonating yet casual tone, pop up your question.
So what's your question gonna be like?
Look around at the surroundings or understand the situation/theme of the place and pick a question. The key here is that you have to ask an open-ended question. If you ask her a yes/no question, it ends right there! So when you walk up to her and she looks at you expecting you to say something interesting, drop it down and make it simple.
"Do you know where the smoothie place is? I'm in the mood for a smoothie."
--If you are at a coffee shop:
"Whoa! That’s a really neat mug. What do you think about it?"
"Whoa! That’s a really neat mug. What do you think about it?"
--If you are at a bookstore:
"That's a really great book I've heard? Are you just curious or are you actually from the domain?"
"That's a really great book I've heard? Are you just curious or are you actually from the domain?"
--If you are at a clothing/footwear store:
"Hey I am trying to find something for my female friend for her birthday, but I am really bad at it. Do you think you can help me choose?"
"Hey I am trying to find something for my female friend for her birthday, but I am really bad at it. Do you think you can help me choose?"
Carrying it forward...
Bring in some routine or some stories. But choose your topic sensibly to keep the conversation interesting. Nobody wants to hear where you work and what's your specialization at the first go. Let her do as much talking as she can. Now you don't want the interest to fall. So, as she starts to get done with her words, stack up interesting events from
your life and roll them out starting with the most interesting. She'll exclaim, she'll laugh and she'll open up. That's it. The conversation will keep going. Here was the key: You always made sure that she was reacting more than you were reacting. It seemed as if she was opening up and you were letting her speak.
When you first started speaking to her, you were casual in your approach. No preformed thoughts, no inhibitions! You didn't care what she would think of you!
You need to do this more often with a mindset that you are going through a normal day. That day you see someone interesting and she wants to open up to you, how cool! Else your day continues like any other normal day.
The mistake that guys make is they try pick-up lines, they try too hard to make her laugh or sometimes even ask really weird questions. These things don't work in the real world when you are talking to a stranger for the first time.
The casual laid back approach ...
It sets you at a higher value than her. It causes an attraction as you keep the ball rolling. In every conversation, the person who reacts less and is more relaxed turns out to be more
dominant or alpha. The other person trying to react more is the one who's more attracted. This makes a girl struggle to make small talk and keep the conversation going as long as you set your value higher than hers.Always remain more relaxed than her. Do not react too much to what she says, just keep it casual and smile and show that you are listening. As long as you remain a challenge for her, she will remain attracted and try to flaunt the best of her to you. Keeping the alpha status and staying in control right from the beginning will ensure you remain a challenge.
This basically is the entire gist of "How to Talk to A Stranger"! Try this out with a few girls out there and each time you'll get better than before. Don't panic, don't react, don't worry about what she thinks! Just speak up!
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