Showing posts with label ex-girlfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ex-girlfriend. Show all posts
Playa Boyfriend Pays for All
Secret by: Olivia
Place: Raleigh, North Carolina, USA
I believed that I was falling for Mac though we weren't together for long. Right from the beginning I knew he was a player, but nothing helped me get over my feelings for him.
Within 3 days of breaking up with Mac, he had a new girlfriend for a day. After 2 weeks, he had another one too. Worse was that I was pregnant by him, which I realized after dumping him. Even worse was that I couldn't stop thinking it was the wrong decision.
I needed to get over him! Mac as usual didn't seem to care. I was sure he will go the same route with another girl, then another one and then another one. I was angered, humiliated and was boiling from within. I didn't want any more girls going through it or crying over him.
I needed to finally get a grip, move on, but give Mac the s*it that he gave us all. I spent hours wondering how I would do that. What struck me was probably the most evil thing I have ever done. Here is what happened to Mac:
Mac had been trying to get Cathy, the hottest blonde in his Spanish class. He had been trying to woo her, but no luck, which was the ultimate ego hurt for Mac. Mac never had a girl say "no" to him. Cathy finally agreed to go out for dinner with Mac and she chose Vivace. I am sure Mac wanted a to score on her post dinner. After all he was in for a really expensive date!
Well, the scene was set. The evening came and Mac & Cathy were at Vivace ordering food and wine. That's when Jen & I arrived. Jen was overjoyed seeing Mac and hugged him with a kiss. Our blondie Ms Cathy was stunned and Mac was speechless. He could barely speak to introduce us. Jen said hi to both of them and introduced herself and me as Mac's ex-girlfriends. Mac O Mac, what was he in for he must have thought through those moments. Mac tried being gentle and offered us to join them. We giggled but with no shame accepted his offer. He could see Cathy getting so mad and his evening getting ruined.
Another couple of minutes as we scanned through the wine menu, Emma came in. I guess that was the biggest bomb that fell on Mac. Less than 5 days back he had just dumped Emma and now here he was with 3 hotties at Vivace. Emma sat beside me and we stared right in Mac's face. Emma, Jen & I were out for a girl's night. Emma was dressed to kill that night. She could make any guy go weak in his knees that night at the restaurant.
The plan was working. Never had I seen the studly Mac finding hard to gather words to speak. I am sure by now he had guessed we were playing on him. He was so dazed that he couldn't get any sort of control over the situation. We ordered wine, cured meats, risotto, caesar and tuna... I guess that was the list. Then we ordered more wine and still some more till we were giggling and swaying.
Drunk Emma lashed out at Mac and fought over their break up. She yelled at how he had been a player and disposed off girls like tissues as the whole restaurant looked in our direction. Mac was embarrassed to the core struggling to explain whilst we all laughed. Cathy's facial expressions shouted out loud how ignited she was waiting to kick Mac between his legs.
Then I excused myself to go the Ladies Room. Emma & Jen followed me. We finally left Mac & Cathy to have a moment. Jen hadn't even opened the door before Emma burst out with a deafening laugh. I am sure the whole crowd behind must have heard her! Here's the twist - Cathy followed inside and gave me a hi5! Woohoo!
We had all loved Mac but hated him even more. That evening Mac's self-confidence had gone down the drain and was lost in some gutters. We walked off from Vivace leaving the guy waiting for 4 pretty women! Not one came back for him! We walked the streets laughing and commenting on the poor soul! We had within us a sense of victory, girl power and ultimate satisfaction for having pulled off this prank on him... Each of us girls has a story to tell our grandkids now!
Mac had figured it. This was Mac's most expensive date and will always be for the rest of his life. The most memorable too, after all he had 4 hotties, but still not even one! The last semester passed and no one heard Mac going out with a girl all those months... Till today I get such a kick from having smashed Mac's ego, his self-confidence and embarrassing him in front of the entire restaurant.
"Thanks for the dinner & wine Mac!"
Within 3 days of breaking up with Mac, he had a new girlfriend for a day. After 2 weeks, he had another one too. Worse was that I was pregnant by him, which I realized after dumping him. Even worse was that I couldn't stop thinking it was the wrong decision.
I needed to get over him! Mac as usual didn't seem to care. I was sure he will go the same route with another girl, then another one and then another one. I was angered, humiliated and was boiling from within. I didn't want any more girls going through it or crying over him.I needed to finally get a grip, move on, but give Mac the s*it that he gave us all. I spent hours wondering how I would do that. What struck me was probably the most evil thing I have ever done. Here is what happened to Mac:
Mac had been trying to get Cathy, the hottest blonde in his Spanish class. He had been trying to woo her, but no luck, which was the ultimate ego hurt for Mac. Mac never had a girl say "no" to him. Cathy finally agreed to go out for dinner with Mac and she chose Vivace. I am sure Mac wanted a to score on her post dinner. After all he was in for a really expensive date!
Well, the scene was set. The evening came and Mac & Cathy were at Vivace ordering food and wine. That's when Jen & I arrived. Jen was overjoyed seeing Mac and hugged him with a kiss. Our blondie Ms Cathy was stunned and Mac was speechless. He could barely speak to introduce us. Jen said hi to both of them and introduced herself and me as Mac's ex-girlfriends. Mac O Mac, what was he in for he must have thought through those moments. Mac tried being gentle and offered us to join them. We giggled but with no shame accepted his offer. He could see Cathy getting so mad and his evening getting ruined.
Another couple of minutes as we scanned through the wine menu, Emma came in. I guess that was the biggest bomb that fell on Mac. Less than 5 days back he had just dumped Emma and now here he was with 3 hotties at Vivace. Emma sat beside me and we stared right in Mac's face. Emma, Jen & I were out for a girl's night. Emma was dressed to kill that night. She could make any guy go weak in his knees that night at the restaurant.
The plan was working. Never had I seen the studly Mac finding hard to gather words to speak. I am sure by now he had guessed we were playing on him. He was so dazed that he couldn't get any sort of control over the situation. We ordered wine, cured meats, risotto, caesar and tuna... I guess that was the list. Then we ordered more wine and still some more till we were giggling and swaying.Drunk Emma lashed out at Mac and fought over their break up. She yelled at how he had been a player and disposed off girls like tissues as the whole restaurant looked in our direction. Mac was embarrassed to the core struggling to explain whilst we all laughed. Cathy's facial expressions shouted out loud how ignited she was waiting to kick Mac between his legs.
Then I excused myself to go the Ladies Room. Emma & Jen followed me. We finally left Mac & Cathy to have a moment. Jen hadn't even opened the door before Emma burst out with a deafening laugh. I am sure the whole crowd behind must have heard her! Here's the twist - Cathy followed inside and gave me a hi5! Woohoo!
We had all loved Mac but hated him even more. That evening Mac's self-confidence had gone down the drain and was lost in some gutters. We walked off from Vivace leaving the guy waiting for 4 pretty women! Not one came back for him! We walked the streets laughing and commenting on the poor soul! We had within us a sense of victory, girl power and ultimate satisfaction for having pulled off this prank on him... Each of us girls has a story to tell our grandkids now!
Mac had figured it. This was Mac's most expensive date and will always be for the rest of his life. The most memorable too, after all he had 4 hotties, but still not even one! The last semester passed and no one heard Mac going out with a girl all those months... Till today I get such a kick from having smashed Mac's ego, his self-confidence and embarrassing him in front of the entire restaurant."Thanks for the dinner & wine Mac!"
The Break Up News
Confession by: Ethan
Place: Baltimore, Maryland, USA
I have decided to break up with my girlfriend Natalie by posting my break up letter here. I don't have the patience to face her anymore.
Dear Natalie,
I am going to cut a long story short. I am not being able to cope up with your ridiculous demands.
I can't keep updating you about every single detail about the venture I am trying to set up. I am trying hard to pacify your outbursts of insecurity, but you don't seem to stop. Vivian is just another partner like others who ends up working with me till late night. It doesn't mean that I am doing her. I can not do you these days because
I am really physically tired and mentally tensed about the whole thing. Its not because I am satisfying Vivian that I have no energy.I have always thought of you as my greatest strength. Unfortunately, you are only becoming my greatest weakness. Coming home to you after a herculean day at work is only demotivating me.
Its in your best interest that you find someone who will live up to your demands. I wish I could because I still love you.
I hope you understand that I am not just reacting all of a sudden. Its been growing within me and finally today I have lost my patience. I have packed all my stuff and am driving away to the studio where I will be staying till I find myself a place.
Your Ex,
Ethan
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Get Over A Break Up
Advice by: Azzan
Place: Tel Aviv, Israel
It is not as difficult to "Get over A Break Up" as we actually make it ourselves. Well, I just know people who went through this and what some of them did or realized in life that helped them get out of it. I just felt that I should put that down here so that it helps you come out of the grief.
It is not as difficult to "Get over A Break Up" as we actually make it ourselves. Well, I just know people who went through this and what some of them did or realized in life that helped them get out of it. I just felt that I should put that down here so that it helps you come out of the grief.
Remember
"More often than usual, it takes not one, but two people to bring down love...It wasn't just you!"
If its too much to read just sit back and enjoy the video below... (If the video is not showing in your Internet Explorer Browser, please use Mozilla Firefox or Google Chrome and upgrade your flash player)
1. Believe this Fact, trust me its true
"In almost 100% relationships, there always will be at least one extremely intense clash of emotions, desires or words which will bring the relationship to the brink of a break-up. And sometimes these clashes are so bad that its just not worth mending anything again."
Tip: Don't keep lingering around the break-up...
Love yourself & have some self-respect, please!
2. Ask yourself
" Why should he/she be responsible for your happiness & your peace of mind ??? "
I am so dead sure that you compromised on quite a few things earlier. Go ahead & take the step to do those things... Whether you have to be alone or with anyone else, just go ahead do it! You
compromised earlier when you were nurturing the relationship, but now is your chance to treat yourself to some fun...You are "entitled to have fun", isn't it?
Tip: Don't be so harsh with yourself!
3. Moving On...
" Why can't I get him/her off my mind ??? "
You've loved the person so damn much... Are you nuts that you are gonna get him/her off your mind in a flash? Obviously Not! But well, you gotta work towards it... Its tough, believe me... Very Tough, But Possible! Tell your mind you gotta be strong & follow this:
Delete
all his/her contacts including phone nos, email ids, messenger ids...everything.
Pack away
all the memories such as gifts, photographs, momentos, etc. of your ex and dump them somewhere.
Vent it out
When you really feel angry or you have a heavy flow of emotions, just pen it all down on paper, read it, preserve it! You won't write better essays than this ever, believe me.
Tip: When you get disturbed about what your ex must be going through, go play with some pet(animal) or kids or cultivate a plant or nurture anything with love.
4. Exercise
On a more serious note now, listen up here! If you do any form of physical exercise, it really helps to release stress & sadness... What more, you look & feel so much better!! I mean just go for a walk or jog somewhere, pump some iron,dance or just jump about... Just tire yourself completely to burn those calories & those memories!
Tip: Don't be a couch potato, you'll only keep dreaming or
hating life or analyzing something useless!
5. Now Talk to Someone
Once you have slowly started to recover, speak about it to someone. Share the burden of this horrible time with someone close. But don't you dare glorify your sweet times with your ex. Tell your friend/relative what troubled you & what went wrong. In the end, tell them that you are finding it hard, but you are trying to seek your way out.
Tip: The end of a disaster is the beginning of rebuilding...a new lease of life!
Be Positive!
Everyone who kept asking me "How to Get Over A Break Up" actually came and thanked me when they actually felt the difference in their lives. Take care and I hope you get over your break up soon!
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Seems like A Bollywood Film
Personal Secret by: Karishma
Place: Bangalore, India
Characters
1. Me, Karishma
2. My Ex-Boyfriend, Pranav
3. My Roomie, Tamara
4. Tamara's Boyfriend, Adnan
My ex felt like a loser after having dumped me and then being used & thrown away by my roommate. I felt terrible to see him in that state and had such a flow of emotions through my mind that day. I could hardly get sleep for the next couple of nights after that. Just the thought of what he must have gone through kept playing on my mind continuously.
I sound like an idiot, don't I? But, its hard to see that person in pain whom you've loved so dearly.
He now wanted to come back to me and wanted me to accept him again. I seriously didn't have the heart to go ahead and accept him again. I mean I could do everything to ensure he was okay, but to relate with him again in that manner was close to impossible.
But my dear ex then broke down before me and said how he was losing himself and going mad. He even considered suicide. I am a fool that I am and I gave into that. I melted! My ego told him that "I can't accept you", but the stupid heart inside me said, "Lets give it some time and see how it works out between us." It really gave him a ray of hope to know that I was at least considering him and we could possibly have a future together.
I don't know why I fall so easily into these stupid traps. I started to be all caring and loving one more time without using any specific words of love as such, but just through the way I behaved with him. He felt at ease to know that I was getting back.Life did have to turn ugly one more time. This time I thought he had returned to me finally. I had started making efforts to revive our love. But you are then wondering why am I writing all this about him if I have really started to love him again -- the reason is this:
Pranav: "I don't know if I still feel for Tamara. I feel really jealous when she speaks about her boyfriend. Her thoughts still keep coming to me and keep troubling me. I don't know if its you or its her!"
I let our conversation continue normally and I said good-bye to him for the day. After that, all I could just say was "f*ck off dude", but I said it silently to myself so that he wouldn't hear. I really don't think I am gonna let myself be treated like a tennis ball anymore... I am not his back-up plan or a second option. I really don't wanna melt yet another time again in front of his "distressed image". Dealing with such issues is what psychiatrists or rehabs do, not me for sure!
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