As a human being, you flirt naturally in daily life more often than you realize. This guide is designed to improve your natural flirting instinct. It is suitable for guys and girls of all ages because flirting is nothing but just a developed social skill. Flirting can lead to friendship, dating and eventually even a romantic relationship.

This is The Fastest Guide to Flirting. In this guide you will learn the most effective “activities” and “tips” to help you master the art of flirting. There are many guides available online that will give you tips on How to Flirt. Here we have compiled the best “tips” from everywhere! Using these tips and activities will teach you how to flirt with anyone effectively and at a much faster speed. Patiently read and follow till the end if you want to charm the opposite sex whenever you feel like doing it!

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THE FASTEST GUIDE TO FLIRTING: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. The Fastest Guide to Flirting

2. Best Places to Flirt

3. Who Should You Flirt With

4. How to Start Flirting

5. Signs of Flirting in Girls

6. Signs of Flirting in Guys

7. Tips for Flirting With Guys

8. Tips for Flirting With Girls

9. Flirting Warnings


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Flirting is nothing but a developed social skill. It is a misconception that just a handful of people are born with this talent. Yes, there are some people who are bold enough to try flirting in their early teens and with initial success they climb up the ladder rather quickly. This implies that it is cumulative confidence that pushes them high up there. If you start experimenting your flirting skills and practice just a little bit, you can be in that league, without exaggeration!

However, if you really are interested in polishing your flirting skills and making a clean sweep each time you flirt, it is recommended that you do the read the entire guide -- The Fastest Guide to Flirting by Melinda Cox. This guide gives you all the best tips on flirting, the signs to look out for from the opposite sex, certain warnings to keep in mind while flirting and a whole range of other related topics to gear you up for the kill.

If you would like to know more on the art of flirting, here are few recommendations for you:

Certain things need to be avoided while flirting just to make you a better flirt or to help you from falling into an undesirable circumstance. Before you start flirting, remember that you are just out there to have fun. It may or may not go as expected, nor does it carry any guarantee what it will lead to in future.

When you flirt with somebody, don’t take it too seriously! You are just being playful in the social setting. There may be a possible rejection, but don’t let that discourage you. Just move on and hop onto another person who will respond positively. This will heighten your chances of getting a flirting mate faster than wasting time over non-responsive

As described earlier, there are always certain places which are most conducive to flirting. Try to stick to mostly those places, unless some other exceptions that you deem fit for flirting. Choosing inappropriate social settings will bring you embarrassment and tarnish your social image too. Furthermore, avoid stalking anybody who is uninterested in flirting with you. Respect their choice and hop onto someone else.

Never insult anyone or be arrogant to someone you are flirting with. You may choose to use humor that is acceptable to the person you are flirting with, but being cocky is a complete no-no! Also avoid being too outspoken about anything that’s on your mind. Unless you have developed some level of comfort after meeting the person a few times, choose your words correctly. For example, don’t start giving them tips on dressing or making comments about their friends or anything that might be personal.

You are flirting with someone because you fancy them. It is utterly useless and disgusting to talk about your past love life because it is just not meant for that moment of flirting.

Complaining won’t do you any damage as such, but it will just bore the person than excite them. You aren’t husband and wife to talk of daily woes. So let the firecrackers burst till (and if) you get married!

It is best to leave from the flirting floor as soon as you realize the moment is losing its charm. This way the person will remember that it was a ball of a time they had with you and have no memory of a boring instance. Plus, the one who moves out first is always the more desired one between the two.

Cracking dirty jokes or talking about sexual stuff may not be desirable to someone unless they have reached a certain level of comfort with you. Avoid it to come across as a cheap personality. Rather you must choose light-hearted witty humor which is subconsciously a better turn on!

We are all human beings and we all want to do it! There’s no doubt about it! You have to be able to understand the intensity and mood of the moment before you make any physical advance. Guys acting too desperate get tagged as jerks and girls come across as sluts. So, be wise and stay alert!

This does not need much explanation. Just that you must hold back and not get carried away… Sometimes you are flirting just casually for fun and you have a spouse back at home. At times you just meet someone really attractive, but is completely unknown to you – what about possible STDs? These are just few consequences – you must measure the ones relevant to you at that moment.

Firstly, if you confess your love on day one, you will seem really needy. Let the sparks flow and let both of you feel it, don’t start pouring your heart out completely. It gives the other person an upper hand and a chance to exploit you too. Secondly, it is unwise because you barely know the person. Attraction does not equal love; love is way deeper than just mere flirting. So keep hunting and keep exploring till you are convinced you have fallen in love with the right person!

Congratulations for having successfully finished your Crash Course in Flirting! Cheers! You may leave back your experiences in the comments section. We would love to hear from you about your flirting adventures... Happy hunting!

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THE FASTEST GUIDE TO FLIRTING: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. The Fastest Guide to Flirting

2. Best Places to Flirt

3. Who Should You Flirt With

4. How to Start Flirting

5. Signs of Flirting in Girls

6. Signs of Flirting in Guys

7. Tips for Flirting With Guys

8. Tips for Flirting With Girls

9. Flirting Warnings


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When a man is flirting with you, he will inevitably give off many signs which are very easy to read! Signs of flirting that men show are rather obvious as opposed to the subtle signs that women give out. So read carefully and sit back and enjoy the next time a guy is trying to flirt with you!


By the way, if you haven't gone through the preliminary eye contact test of flirting, you can find it here.

After your eyes have met his, he will give out the most typical flirty look. It is rather difficult to catch, but here’s what he’ll do. He will look at your eyes longer than normal, suddenly then move his sight to your lips further dropping to your chin and he’ll return back to your eyes. This look implies you have successfully attracted the man in him!

When he checks you out intently, it means he is trying to gauge if you make a suitable mate. He will scan you head to toe and then look at your body parts. Your feminine instincts will immediately tell you if he is just physically attracted or if he is searching for a romantic interest. At the end, if he smiles suggestively or makes an extended eye contact, he is searching for a romantic interest in you.

Look out for 3 things:

a. His Eyebrows – They will rise briefly for a fraction of a second and fall. It means he wants to talk you. Returning the gesture implies you are accepting his invitation.

b. His Nostrils & Lips – His nostrils will flare and his lips will part to make him look friendlier. Smiling back at him will convey your interest.

c. Touching his Face – Out of consciousness, he will touch his cheek, chin and ears.

A typical Cowboy Stance is when he stands with his legs spread apart slightly more than normal and his thumb either hooked to his pocket or his belt. If he is standing this way and his body and feet are pointing in your direction, you can be sure he is trying to get your attention. Through this gesture the man in him is showing dominance, style and strength. Give him a sexy smile and check him out if you wish to flirt back!

He will try to speak and laugh loudly, try to put down other guys to show his alpha male nature, lean back in his chair or walk with his chest puffed out. These exaggerated gestures are meant to draw your attention towards him. You may acknowledge his presence by giving him cute looks now and then to make him feel you are flirting back.

(Preening: devoting effort to making oneself look attractive)

The typical signs he will give away when he is trying to flirt with you are:

a. Flexing of his muscles

b. Running his fingers through his hair

c. Stroking his tie, smoothing his shirt or jeans

d. Exhibiting the Cowboy Stance

e. Pulling up his socks (biggest subconscious give away)

You can catch these gestures rather easily. You can give away some signs of flirting yourself to take things further.

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When a woman is flirting with you, she will inevitably give off many signs which you must pick up on! These hidden signs of flirting decide if you can take that incredible attraction between her and you into a whole another world. So read carefully and be watchful when its your time to flirt!

By the way, if you haven't gone through the preliminary eye contact test of flirting, you can find it here.

When a girl smiles at you after making eye contact, it means she wouldn’t mind you walking up to her and breaking the ice. It takes effort for her to smile at you, so you must at least return a pleasant smile.

When a girl laughs and jokes a lot in the company of her friends, but every now and then keeps looking at you, she is trying to show that she is a fun person to be with. Just smiling looking at her having fun gives her the reassurance that you like the fun person in her!

When a girl tries to speak aloud or laugh loudly a lot of times, she wants to get your attention. If she tries to walk past where you are in an attempt to get something or reach the restroom, you can be sure she really wants you to check her out. Make her feel good, make a brief eye contact or smile and check her out in a second.

Women check out men briefly without knowing that they are consciously doing it. Men demonstrate this trait rather intentionally. But when this gesture comes from a girl, you can be sure that it is her attraction towards you that’s making her check you out. Give her a sexy smile in return biting your lips when she does this as if you just caught her!

The signs above are a very direct way when she is intently trying to flirt with you. Sometimes a girl might just be shy or might be subconsciously attracted to you. Her body language speaks volumes that she is flirting with you.

a. The most common gesture is playing with her hair, running her fingers through her hair or twirling her hair.

b. Exposing her neck by moving her hair off her neck and tilting her head

c. Mirroring your body movements and gestures

d. Crossing and uncrossing her legs to get your attention subtly

e. Stroking her arm or her thighs

She will usually try to distance herself from her group of friends making an excuse about something. If she is by herself, she will try to spend unusually more time in a store or in a library. It is her way of saying that she would like you to walk up to her and talk to her.

There can be no bigger give away than this. If she approaches you to talk, she is actually playing the male part here. She totally wants to get to know you more! Be calm at such times, nor should you act too desperate, neither should you be too stiff and closed. Look approachable, be relaxed and smile as you talk to her!

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THE FASTEST GUIDE TO FLIRTING: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. The Fastest Guide to Flirting

2. Best Places to Flirt

3. Who Should You Flirt With

4. How to Start Flirting

5. Signs of Flirting in Girls

6. Signs of Flirting in Guys

7. Tips for Flirting With Guys

8. Tips for Flirting With Girls

9. Flirting Warnings


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1. Give out signs of being attracted yourself

2. Make an attempt to initiate flirting & indicate you are interested

3. Try to read signs if that someone is interested in flirting back

The most recommended and effective method to initiate flirting is by using your eyes. Just gaze at the person briefly for a second with large eyes and immediately look away. If he/she looks back at you, maybe that person does find you interesting. If this game of gazing at each other continues for 3-4 times, you can safely assume that the person is interested in flirting with you.

Hold the eye contact a bit longer than a second and then look away after the first time your eyes have met. If you wish to take things further return a smile and look comfortable.

Do not stare for long! It makes the other person feel uncomfortable and it may appear you are desperate.

This is just a preliminary test to see if someone is flirting with their eyes. Exchanging looks between strangers is pretty common in our modern world. It may not necessarily mean that the other person wants to flirt with you beyond the eye game! Therefore, it would be wise if you watch out for other signs of flirting before you take the next step to avoid any kind of embarrassment.

A. Signs of Flirting In Guys

B. Signs of Flirting In Girls

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THE FASTEST GUIDE TO FLIRTING: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. The Fastest Guide to Flirting

2. Best Places to Flirt

3. Who Should You Flirt With

4. How to Start Flirting

5. Signs of Flirting in Girls

6. Signs of Flirting in Guys

7. Tips for Flirting With Guys

8. Tips for Flirting With Girls

9. Flirting Warnings


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Flirting will only move further if you choose wisely the right places to flirt. Choosing to flirt at inappropriate places will only bring you embarrassment and tarnish your confidence. Your motive must be to be at the most conducive places as much as you can if you want to flirt with somebody and expect them to reciprocate in a way that will please you.

Parties and gatherings top the list of the best places to flirt. At these occasions, everyone tries to look their best – for the obvious reason that they want attention from the opposite sex. Therefore, flirtatious behaviour is accepted as well as expected!

In general, any place of learning attracts a large number of single people – everyone having a large number of common interests that too! The informal environment at these places makes approaching someone rather easy.

These are places where people invest quality time to bring out the best in them. Definitely in such a case, everyone would love a bit of admiration. Probably you could expect them to reciprocate in the same manner too.

If you see someone shopping leisurely at supermarkets and malls or browsing through books solitarily in a bookstore, there are good chances that these people may be single. However, it will take you some effort to strike up a conversation to see how they respond and gauge if they are even mildly attracted to you.

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The casual and laid back attitude of people at these places gives you a chance to flirt with total strangers without seeming that you are intruding their space. However, you obviously have to take your call when someone is flirting with you under the influence of alcohol.

# 6 Best Place to Flirt

Your place of work should not be viewed in the same degree as the other mentioned places suitable for flirting. Such behaviour may be unacceptable etiquette and may even cost you your reputation, especially if you are male. Having said that, certain places like the cafeteria, food court, coffee machine, lounging area and activity rooms are safe enough to try out your flirting skills.

THE FASTEST GUIDE TO FLIRTING: TABLE OF CONTENTS

1. The Fastest Guide to Flirting

2. Best Places to Flirt

3. Who Should You Flirt With

4. How to Start Flirting

5. Signs of Flirting in Girls

6. Signs of Flirting in Guys

7. Tips for Flirting With Guys

8. Tips for Flirting With Girls

9. Flirting Warnings


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