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How to Get Over an Ex Boyfriend

Suggestion by: Jessica Highton
Place: New York City, USA

I know exactly what runs through your mind when you've broken up! I've been in the same state as you are currently in and I had done a Google search "How to Get Over an Ex Boyfriend" to reach BlogJeez! Its been over 3 months now and I am perfectly all right and completely over my ex. It required an immense amount of struggle, discipline and will for me to come out of it.

The real turning point in me getting over my ex boyfriend was when I read Azzan's article on BlogJeez about How to Get Over a Break Up. It surely is an expert article and somehow his methods, though slightly unusual, they seem to work! If you are looking at a long-term serious approach on getting over your ex boyfriend, then go ahead and follow Azzan's methods.

If you just want to make yourself feel good for the time being, I just want you to listen to this fun song below. It used to help me lighten up my mood and get over my ex boyfriend whenever I felt low.



Everyone might probably be giving you all the expert advice and counseling on how to get over it and forget about your ex-boyfriend. Instead of taking things so seriously, here's a fun guide to flirting called the Fastest Guide to Flirting that you should probably try out than sit in one corner, weep and curse your fate! So, get up girl and get going! Feel free to share your thoughts below if you would like to speak up about your break up or about your ex boyfriend. We would love to hear from you!

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The Break Up News

Confession by: Ethan
Place: Baltimore, Maryland, USA


I have decided to break up with my girlfriend Natalie by posting my break up letter here. I don't have the patience to face her anymore.

Dear Natalie,
I am going to cut a long story short. I am not being able to cope up with your ridiculous demands.

I can't keep updating you about every single detail about the venture I am trying to set up. I am trying hard to pacify your outbursts of insecurity, but you don't seem to stop. Vivian is just another partner like others who ends up working with me till late night. It doesn't mean that I am doing her. I can not do you these days because I am really physically tired and mentally tensed about the whole thing. Its not because I am satisfying Vivian that I have no energy.

I have always thought of you as my greatest strength. Unfortunately, you are only becoming my greatest weakness. Coming home to you after a herculean day at work is only demotivating me.

Its in your best interest that you find someone who will live up to your demands. I wish I could because I still love you.

I hope you understand that I am not just reacting all of a sudden. Its been growing within me and finally today I have lost my patience. I have packed all my stuff and am driving away to the studio where I will be staying till I find myself a place.

Your Ex,
Ethan

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Get Over A Break Up

Advice by: Azzan

Place: Tel Aviv, Israel

It is not as difficult to "Get over A Break Up" as we actually make it ourselves. Well, I just know people who went through this and what some of them did or realized in life that helped them get out of it. I just felt that I should put that down here so that it helps you come out of the grief.


Remember
"More often than usual, it takes not one, but two people to bring down love...It wasn't just you!"


If its too much to read just sit back and enjoy the video below... (If the video is not showing in your Internet Explorer Browser, please use Mozilla Firefox or Google Chrome and upgrade your flash player)



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1. Believe this Fact, trust me its true
"In almost 100% relationships, there always will be at least one extremely intense clash of emotions, desires or words which will bring the relationship to the brink of a break-up. And sometimes these clashes are so bad that its just not worth mending anything again."

Tip: Don't keep lingering around the break-up...
Love yourself & have some self-respect, please!


2. Ask yourself
" Why should he/she be responsible for your happiness & your peace of mind ??? "
I am so dead sure that you compromised on quite a few things earlier. Go ahead & take the step to do those things... Whether you have to be alone or with anyone else, just go ahead do it! You compromised earlier when you were nurturing the relationship, but now is your chance to treat yourself to some fun...
You are "entitled to have fun", isn't it?

Tip: Don't be so harsh with yourself!


3. Moving On...
" Why can't I get him/her off my mind ??? "
You've loved the person so damn much... Are you nuts that you are gonna get him/her off your mind in a flash? Obviously Not! But well, you gotta work towards it... Its tough, believe me... Very Tough, But Possible! Tell your mind you gotta be strong & follow this:
Delete
all his/her contacts including phone nos, email ids, messenger ids...everything.
Pack away
all the memories such as gifts, photographs, momentos, etc. of your ex and dump them somewhere.
Vent it out
When you really feel angry or you have a heavy flow of emotions, just pen it all down on paper, read it, preserve it! You won't write better essays than this ever, believe me.

Tip: When you get disturbed about what your ex must be going through, go play with some pet(animal) or kids or cultivate a plant or nurture anything with love.


4. Exercise
On a more serious note now, listen up here! If you do any form of physical exercise, it really helps to release stress & sadness... What more, you look & feel so much better!! I mean just go for a walk or jog somewhere, pump some iron,dance or just jump about... Just tire yourself completely to burn those calories & those memories!

Tip: Don't be a couch potato, you'll only keep dreaming or
hating life or analyzing something useless!


5. Now Talk to Someone
Once you have slowly started to recover, speak about it to someone. Share the burden of this horrible time with someone close. But don't you dare glorify your sweet times with your ex. Tell your friend/relative what troubled you & what went wrong. In the end, tell them that you are finding it hard, but you are trying to seek your way out.

Tip: The end of a disaster is the beginning of rebuilding...a new lease of life!
Be Positive!


Everyone who kept asking me "How to Get Over A Break Up" actually came and thanked me when they actually felt the difference in their lives. Take care and I hope you get over your break up soon!

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Seems like A Bollywood Film

Personal Secret by: Karishma
Place: Bangalore, India


What an interesting order of events taking place around me... Seems like a complete Bollywood film-script being written

Characters
1. Me, Karishma
2. My Ex-Boyfriend, Pranav
3. My Roomie, Tamara
4. Tamara's Boyfriend, Adnan

Well, my roomie Tamara wakes up one fine morning and feels that she is missing her boyfriend Adnan a lot. So she decides to travel to New Delhi to surprise him. Little does she know that her thought will set my ex Pranav boiling.

Pranav does not admit openly, but he has this thing for Tamara. Tamara is this Turkish beauty and guys in India are crazy about her. My ex is no exception! She is his undeclared love. Tamara loves flirting with him.

Anyway, so Tamara gives Pranav a wake up call in the morning and tells him how she is missing Adnan, her boyfriend and how desperately she wants to travel to New Delhi to see him.

"Okay, babe! What did you just do!"
When Pranav heard this waking up from his sleep, he felt shattered as the grim reality hit him right in his face. For a moment he didn't know how to react... He didn't know whether to dissuade Tamara from going or to calmly just walk away and carry on with his own life and me.

But we've all known Pranav as this possessive man. Sometimes even possessive for things that aren't his. It was evident that hell would break lose and so it did! He blasted out at Tamara. "What the fu** do you think you are doing? You bloody spend all this time with me, you say you wanna travel with me, I hold you all night when we sleep and one fine day you rise from bed to say you are missing Adnan?"

Tamara didn't know how to react to that. She was struck by the inner voice of guilt. She knew she had cheated on Adnan by sharing all those lovy-dovy-mushy moments with Pranav. She felt she should go to her guy, surprise him and make an attempt to rejuvenate her dead relationship. At the same time, she felt helpless about Pranav's state of mind and guilty again because she was responsible for having given Pranav that space. She didn't accept Pranav really because she would hate to do that to me. But she kept telling him that she felt deeply for him "too". I have absolutely no clue what she was thinking...
Wow! What a woman... I don't have words to express, just abuses for the bit*h! Though I really love her. She's been my best roommate ever and a great friend too.

Well she did what she said eventually. She flew to New Delhi to revive her relationship. The sheer thought of Adnan and Tamara being together utterly broke Pranav into pieces. He sobbed like a baby as if there was no end to it. All that he could do is talk to me about his feelings. Sometimes, he would hide how broken he felt thinking that it might hurt me, but he could hardly control.

All this drove me so mad that I had thoughts of pushing Tamara off our 9th floor apartment. I kept trying each moment to keep Pranav at peace and make him feel strong & positive. I kept giving him lessons on life, love and relationships.

Time passed and our villain arrived back from New Delhi. She narrated to Pranav the moments she spent with Adnan. Pranav felt sick from within because he had walked over me for Tamara. He felt "used" by her to satisfy her emptiness in life. He yelled at her a little, but then gave up. He kind of realized he has no future with a woman like her.


My ex felt like a loser after having dumped me and then being used & thrown away by my roommate. I felt terrible to see him in that state and had such a flow of emotions through my mind that day. I could hardly get sleep for the next couple of nights after that. Just the thought of what he must have gone through kept playing on my mind continuously.
I sound like an idiot, don't I? But, its hard to see that person in pain whom you've loved so dearly.

He now wanted to come back to me and wanted me to accept him again. I seriously didn't have the heart to go ahead and accept him again. I mean I could do everything to ensure he was okay, but to relate with him again in that manner was close to impossible.

But my dear ex then broke down before me and said how he was losing himself and going mad. He even considered suicide. I am a fool that I am and I gave into that. I melted! My ego told him that "I can't accept you", but the stupid heart inside me said, "Lets give it some time and see how it works out between us." It really gave him a ray of hope to know that I was at least considering him and we could possibly have a future together.

I don't know why I fall so easily into these stupid traps. I started to be all caring and loving one more time without using any specific words of love as such, but just through the way I behaved with him. He felt at ease to know that I was getting back.

Life did have to turn ugly one more time. This time I thought he had returned to me finally. I had started making efforts to revive our love. But you are then wondering why am I writing all this about him if I have really started to love him again -- the reason is this:
Pranav: "I don't know if I still feel for Tamara. I feel really jealous when she speaks about her boyfriend. Her thoughts still keep coming to me and keep troubling me. I don't know if its you or its her!"

I let our conversation continue normally and I said good-bye to him for the day. After that, all I could just say was "f*ck off dude", but I said it silently to myself so that he wouldn't hear. I really don't think I am gonna let myself be treated like a tennis ball anymore... I am not his back-up plan or a second option. I really don't wanna melt yet another time again in front of his "distressed image". Dealing with such issues is what psychiatrists or rehabs do, not me for sure!

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