Showing posts with label girlfriend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label girlfriend. Show all posts
The Girlfriend That Every Man Wants
Advice by: Serena Powell
Place: Bradford, UK
A popular New York based relationship magazine recently published an editorial on what makes a certain category of girlfriends more desirable to their men. A topic well studied, researched and surveyed by noted columnist Dr. Mark Montero, he brings out simplistic details that most girls and women can follow. As a woman, I can vouch for his guidance on being the girlfriend that every man wants.
A popular New York based relationship magazine recently published an editorial on what makes a certain category of girlfriends more desirable to their men. A topic well studied, researched and surveyed by noted columnist Dr. Mark Montero, he brings out simplistic details that most girls and women can follow. As a woman, I can vouch for his guidance on being the girlfriend that every man wants.
Daughter's Boyfriend is Mine
Secret by: Lauren
Place: Toronto, Canada
My daughter Callie is 18 years old and I am 36. I am fooling around with her boyfriend.I have made some major mistakes in life. I got pregnant at 18 and married at 21. Then I broke up with my boyfriend 2 years later and now am bringing up my teenager on my own.
At 16, Callie had a boyfriend named Ralph. I couldn't help keeping Callie away from the guy because I knew she would land up with him either way. Ralph comes home and spends time with us often. He is really mature for his age, he is 19. He looks hot and is well built!
Once when Callie was not at home, Ralph came over and we had sex. This kept happening and now its become really difficult for us to stay off it. Ralph complains of Callie being too immature.
Callie suspects something is fishy but she thinks its too outrageous that her mom and boyfriend are getting intimate in her absence. I can't seem to confront her when she talks about problems she has with Ralph.
I have spoken to Ralph and asked him to either break up with Callie and go away or stay with her and stop with our fooling around sessions. Ralph's libido just won't let him stop and he persists we continue with our secret relationship. I am really stuck because I can't do that to my daughter on one hand. On the other, Ralph fills in the emptiness superbly and takes my mind off a lot of stress.
I am so stuck now that I don't know what to do! Ralph & Callie haven't had sex in a long time he says. I feel terrible that I am the cause of it... I really need help!
The Break Up News
Confession by: Ethan
Place: Baltimore, Maryland, USA
I have decided to break up with my girlfriend Natalie by posting my break up letter here. I don't have the patience to face her anymore.
Dear Natalie,
I am going to cut a long story short. I am not being able to cope up with your ridiculous demands.
I can't keep updating you about every single detail about the venture I am trying to set up. I am trying hard to pacify your outbursts of insecurity, but you don't seem to stop. Vivian is just another partner like others who ends up working with me till late night. It doesn't mean that I am doing her. I can not do you these days because
I am really physically tired and mentally tensed about the whole thing. Its not because I am satisfying Vivian that I have no energy.I have always thought of you as my greatest strength. Unfortunately, you are only becoming my greatest weakness. Coming home to you after a herculean day at work is only demotivating me.
Its in your best interest that you find someone who will live up to your demands. I wish I could because I still love you.
I hope you understand that I am not just reacting all of a sudden. Its been growing within me and finally today I have lost my patience. I have packed all my stuff and am driving away to the studio where I will be staying till I find myself a place.
Your Ex,
Ethan
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Letter to my Girlfriend's Lover
Letters by: Monika
Place: Munich, Germany
My girlfriend Andrea moved to Paris for work. She found her new lover there, Karolin. Andrea felt pathetic all this while having cheated on me. Below are the letters I wrote to her new found love, Karolin and what Karolin replied to me.
From: Me, Monika
To: Karolin
Dear Karolin,Let me first say that I am here just to make things better for not just Andrea, but for you too. This mail is for you, not her. So if you wish to, you can keep it between us or share it with her if you wanna.
Karolin, for a moment I want you not to think that its the same Monika you know who is writing this email. Just think of me as any other friend of yours.
Lets try to rewind back for a moment and understand whats happened. You might think that "I have lived all this drama & this girl wants to rewind my life!" Well, still, lets just do it.
It probably was the Jan of 2009 when Andrea & you met at an alien place far away from home & your loved ones. You both probably also met at a time when you both were at an emotional low. At such a time, when you found the other person was such a beautiful human being more than anyone else, you could hardly resist, but get close to that person. You two found great company in each other.
You started to spend time together & loved the warmth that you shared. You could hardly even stay a single day without hearing each others voices or even seeing each other for at least once! Bring back all those memories...
Andrea tells me, "Monika, Paris was never so beautiful the way it has seemed to me in the past one month or so. Being with Karolin, I have started to get over all loneliness and I love the place. Her company is what makes me so happy here..." I could hardly believe for a moment that its the same girl saying all this who used to hate Paris a few months back.
Karolin, lets be honest to ourselves here and lets not confuse ourselves what has happened. For starts, it was an emotional attachment which later became an infatuation. Infatuations though don't last for so long. Infatuations don't make us cry, miss or hurt our hearts so badly. Infatuations don't make living life difficult without the other person. Once again, please lets be honest and accept that you both go beyond attachment & attraction...
So now whatever has happened in the past month, leave it aside. Don't break your head & heart over it. You have both messed up your peace of mind doing that and analyzing & fighting over all of it. I even know you are having a tough time with Marcel. (Marcel is Karolin's boyfriend. She was straight until she met Andrea.)
Karolin, you need to ask yourself if you have the heart that feels for her and wants her or it doesn't. In either cases, you gotta be strong. Accept her with love & not compulsion if you wish to, else let her be on her own and make or mess her life on her terms.
You know it Karolin, at the end of such an intense period of love, its hard to just call that person just "someone I know", hard to not look at that person with the same feelings, hard to not feel the person with your hands.
So my girl, decide what it is that you really want! If you don't want love, let her by herself even if she isn't okay today or even if you aren't okay today. I don't know much about how life is treating you, but I'm sure Andrea wont be able to come out of the grief and pain again. I've spoken to her these days, she is okay for a brief moment, but after sometime when I talk to her, she loses her mind and goes nuts again.
But if you wish to get together with her with all love & commitment, I am sure your lives will be beautiful again!
You girls don't need to worry about me if at all you ever think what I am feeling. I am not sad, I just feel bad to see you this way; love, still no love!
And sweetie, you surely can talk to me anytime you want to. Please don't feel uncomfortable about it. I don't have any hard feelings against you and I mean it. If you girls ever get together, I'll throw a party.
Write back to me sometime, if you wanna that is.
Take care girl,
Monika
PS: You are in Paris for the love of fashion, for your career. You have worked hard for it. So please don't compromise on it ever, else you will regret why you ever met Andrea.
From: Karolin
To: Me, Monika
Hey Monika,Well I understand what you are going through.You are perfectly okay in your position. The last one month was happiness without doubt. I was bereft because I was having a hard time with Marcel. Andrea supported me emotionally. And when a person cares for you so much, its natural you will give back love to that person. That's what has happened in the last few weeks. I really don't know why I went blank about Marcel. But I wonder why Andrea got carried away.
Its now that I have realized, what I want. I am pretty firm with my decision. I want to be "Single". I want no relationships. I can't handle them. I can understand Andrea's state of mind. Seems she is longing a lot for me.
She is psychologically affected and wastes her time thinking about it. Its hard ignoring her too. I want her to focus on her job.
Monika, only you can handle her state of mind. I still don't understand her. I wanna be a good friend of hers.
Its just that when you are not around she keeps thinking about herself and me. So if you can be in touch with her regularly for a few days at least that would be great. I am sure she will come out of this and focus on you, her future and job.
Love,
Karolin
Get Over A Break Up
Advice by: Azzan
Place: Tel Aviv, Israel
It is not as difficult to "Get over A Break Up" as we actually make it ourselves. Well, I just know people who went through this and what some of them did or realized in life that helped them get out of it. I just felt that I should put that down here so that it helps you come out of the grief.
It is not as difficult to "Get over A Break Up" as we actually make it ourselves. Well, I just know people who went through this and what some of them did or realized in life that helped them get out of it. I just felt that I should put that down here so that it helps you come out of the grief.
Remember
"More often than usual, it takes not one, but two people to bring down love...It wasn't just you!"
If its too much to read just sit back and enjoy the video below... (If the video is not showing in your Internet Explorer Browser, please use Mozilla Firefox or Google Chrome and upgrade your flash player)
1. Believe this Fact, trust me its true
"In almost 100% relationships, there always will be at least one extremely intense clash of emotions, desires or words which will bring the relationship to the brink of a break-up. And sometimes these clashes are so bad that its just not worth mending anything again."
Tip: Don't keep lingering around the break-up...
Love yourself & have some self-respect, please!
2. Ask yourself
" Why should he/she be responsible for your happiness & your peace of mind ??? "
I am so dead sure that you compromised on quite a few things earlier. Go ahead & take the step to do those things... Whether you have to be alone or with anyone else, just go ahead do it! You
compromised earlier when you were nurturing the relationship, but now is your chance to treat yourself to some fun...You are "entitled to have fun", isn't it?
Tip: Don't be so harsh with yourself!
3. Moving On...
" Why can't I get him/her off my mind ??? "
You've loved the person so damn much... Are you nuts that you are gonna get him/her off your mind in a flash? Obviously Not! But well, you gotta work towards it... Its tough, believe me... Very Tough, But Possible! Tell your mind you gotta be strong & follow this:
Delete
all his/her contacts including phone nos, email ids, messenger ids...everything.
Pack away
all the memories such as gifts, photographs, momentos, etc. of your ex and dump them somewhere.
Vent it out
When you really feel angry or you have a heavy flow of emotions, just pen it all down on paper, read it, preserve it! You won't write better essays than this ever, believe me.
Tip: When you get disturbed about what your ex must be going through, go play with some pet(animal) or kids or cultivate a plant or nurture anything with love.
4. Exercise
On a more serious note now, listen up here! If you do any form of physical exercise, it really helps to release stress & sadness... What more, you look & feel so much better!! I mean just go for a walk or jog somewhere, pump some iron,dance or just jump about... Just tire yourself completely to burn those calories & those memories!
Tip: Don't be a couch potato, you'll only keep dreaming or
hating life or analyzing something useless!
5. Now Talk to Someone
Once you have slowly started to recover, speak about it to someone. Share the burden of this horrible time with someone close. But don't you dare glorify your sweet times with your ex. Tell your friend/relative what troubled you & what went wrong. In the end, tell them that you are finding it hard, but you are trying to seek your way out.
Tip: The end of a disaster is the beginning of rebuilding...a new lease of life!
Be Positive!
Everyone who kept asking me "How to Get Over A Break Up" actually came and thanked me when they actually felt the difference in their lives. Take care and I hope you get over your break up soon!
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