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American Sex Life - 2
Compiled by: Cohen Jenkins
Place: Yonkers, New York
This survey about American couples is continued from here... A complete entertainer of a survey which has growing curiosity through the country, it brings to you some amazing and some shocking revelations as compiled by Cohen Jenkins from Yonkers city, New York!
It might be interesting for you to find out where you stand as an American individual or as an American couple! If you aren't American, just figure out how your lifestyle is placed relatively! Read on below...
You are currently on the page displaying Part 2 of the American Sex Life. Use the links below to jump to other parts.
It might be interesting for you to find out where you stand as an American individual or as an American couple! If you aren't American, just figure out how your lifestyle is placed relatively! Read on below...
You are currently on the page displaying Part 2 of the American Sex Life. Use the links below to jump to other parts.
American Sex Life - Part 2
9. Are American couples adventurous when it comes to trying out different places, experimenting, etc.
Ans: A large part of America is an open-minded society willing to experiment.
-- Cars:
Almost close to half of the active population has done it in a car. This happens to be the second most loved place among Americans after their bedrooms.
-- At Work:
1 out of every 5 working Americans has had an encounter at his/her place of work
-- The Woods:
Almost 30% have done it in the woods
-- Public Parks:
Public Parks 30% have tried risking it at public parks
-- During Travel:
A little under 5% have tried trains and airplanes
-- Places of Education & Worship:
Then there are those who dared to break rules:
8% have gone ahead with it at places of education
3% at places of worship
-- Beaches:
23% people have found secluded beaches for their excitement
-- Hot Tubs:
22% Americans resorted to hot-tubs for raising the temperature
10. Are American couples adventurous when it comes to trying out exciting indulgences?
Ans: Statistically, it is the Europeans who lead in this race. But the American population isn’t quite far behind!
-- Blindfold:
4 out of every 10 Americans have done this!
-- Roleplaying:
Only 2-3 out of 10 have tried this... Does it mean lack of creative thinking?
-- Dressing up:
About 23% dress up for the occasion to turn on the heat!
-- Watching explicit content:
This might seem surprisingly low, but only about 50% of the couples actually watch any kind of content as a foreplay activity!
-- Photographing and recording videos:
And here the celebrities are inspiring more and more people to record their own couple videos and photograph themselves. About 1/3rd of the population now does this!
-- Spanking:
Thanks to the dirty internet movies, close to about 50% of the population have adopted this move in their game!
-- Using toys:
Toys aren’t as popular as you might have thought they were! Maybe they are just advertised about all over the internet, but the buyers are only 25% of the active population!
11. How many Americans have Fantasies? What are they?
Ans: The American media, Hollywood movies and Primetime television have literally drilled fantasies into the life of the American. At least close to 90 percent of the population has some sort of a fantasy. Most of the others who don’t are simply not willing to admit it. Here are some of the most interesting stats:
-- Cheating: 30%
This includes various people outside their relationship – platonic friends, ex-girlfriends/boyfriends, partners of their friends, co-workers, etc.
-- Threesome: 21%
Most common fantasy among single men
-- Doing it at place of work: 10%
The funnier thing is that about 20% have actually gone ahead and done it irrespective of the fact whether they fantasized about it or not!
-- Men’s fantasies seem to be more dominant in nature while women wish to play a more passive role.
-- About 51% American couples openly discuss about their fantasies with each other.
Who do they fantasize about?
a. Celebrities: 31.7%
b. Ex-partners: 34.4%
c. Friends: 37.3%
d. Acquaintances: 35.1%
e. Co-workers: 19.4%
12. How comfortable are Americans with Oral?
Ans: By the age of 25, almost 80% men and about 75% women have received oral from their partners. However, before the age of 25, the stats are actually reversed with about 70% women and 65% men having received oral from their partners.
13. Do Americans indulge in pleasuring each other?... Mutually I mean!
Ans: First of all, let us understand how many of them indulge in pleasuring themselves when they are alone.
So the stats stand as below:
Age: 14-17 years
Men: 75%
Women: 45%
Age: 18-24 years
Men: 80%
Women: 65%
Age: 25-30 years
Men: 85%
Women: 73%
As compared to this, the stats seem relatively way lower when it comes to carrying out the act of pleasuring with a partner. The partner can also be of the same gender in these percentages mentioned below.
Age: 14-17 years
Men: 18%
Women: 20%
Age: 18-24 years
Men: 45%
Women: 38%
Age: 25-30 years
Men: 50%
Women: 50%
14. What are the favorite playing styles for American couples?
Ans: In sequence from the top favorite to the least, here's the list
-- Man Over
This one still remains at the top of the charts! It is also pretty common around the world!
-- Woman Over
Well, the society is male-dominated and funnily even in this respect. However this style is soon becoming a favorite because it helps them last longer!
-- From Behind
This one's risen after the growth of the internet. Almost 30% men and 26% women have their thumbs up for this one!
-- Reverse Style
Merely 8% of the guys and 3% of the girls said they would enjoy this style as opposed to the other ones!
-- Sideways & Standing Style
These are the least favorite. This is primarily because most Americans are non-athletic and this style requires some serious effort! However, world over too, these styles are the least popular!
15. How many Americans climax regularly?
Ans: 85% American men and 65% American women
The world average stands at 64% & 30% respectively.
So, there is a huge leap beyond the average statistics that the world has! In fact, in case of American women, the figures are more than double of the world average! Wow!
16. What is the number of Americans who have Extramarital Encounters?
Ans: About 35% American men and 26% American women have engaged in extramarital encounters at least once during their marriage. The numbers might seem pleasingly low to some of us reading this! But a highly conservative and church-going America also exists, which seems to be on its best behavior during its married life!
17. How many American couples are Satisfied with their Sex Lives?
Ans: There seem to be different grades of satisfaction and it was a good idea to ask some questions to get a better understanding…
-- Enjoyed it a great deal: 70%
-- Very satisfied: 50%
-- Found it very exciting: 36%
-- Traditional & conservative view: 55%
-- Are adventurous: 42%
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Ans: A large part of America is an open-minded society willing to experiment.
-- Cars:
Almost close to half of the active population has done it in a car. This happens to be the second most loved place among Americans after their bedrooms.
-- At Work:
1 out of every 5 working Americans has had an encounter at his/her place of work
-- The Woods:
Almost 30% have done it in the woods
-- Public Parks:
Public Parks 30% have tried risking it at public parks
-- During Travel:
A little under 5% have tried trains and airplanes
-- Places of Education & Worship:
Then there are those who dared to break rules:
8% have gone ahead with it at places of education
3% at places of worship
-- Beaches:
23% people have found secluded beaches for their excitement
-- Hot Tubs:
22% Americans resorted to hot-tubs for raising the temperature
10. Are American couples adventurous when it comes to trying out exciting indulgences?
Ans: Statistically, it is the Europeans who lead in this race. But the American population isn’t quite far behind!
-- Blindfold:
4 out of every 10 Americans have done this!
-- Roleplaying:
Only 2-3 out of 10 have tried this... Does it mean lack of creative thinking?
-- Dressing up:
About 23% dress up for the occasion to turn on the heat!
-- Watching explicit content:
This might seem surprisingly low, but only about 50% of the couples actually watch any kind of content as a foreplay activity!
-- Photographing and recording videos:
And here the celebrities are inspiring more and more people to record their own couple videos and photograph themselves. About 1/3rd of the population now does this!
-- Spanking:
Thanks to the dirty internet movies, close to about 50% of the population have adopted this move in their game!
-- Using toys:
Toys aren’t as popular as you might have thought they were! Maybe they are just advertised about all over the internet, but the buyers are only 25% of the active population!
11. How many Americans have Fantasies? What are they?
Ans: The American media, Hollywood movies and Primetime television have literally drilled fantasies into the life of the American. At least close to 90 percent of the population has some sort of a fantasy. Most of the others who don’t are simply not willing to admit it. Here are some of the most interesting stats:
-- Cheating: 30%
This includes various people outside their relationship – platonic friends, ex-girlfriends/boyfriends, partners of their friends, co-workers, etc.
-- Threesome: 21%
Most common fantasy among single men
-- Doing it at place of work: 10%
The funnier thing is that about 20% have actually gone ahead and done it irrespective of the fact whether they fantasized about it or not!
-- Men’s fantasies seem to be more dominant in nature while women wish to play a more passive role.
-- About 51% American couples openly discuss about their fantasies with each other.
Who do they fantasize about?
a. Celebrities: 31.7%
b. Ex-partners: 34.4%
c. Friends: 37.3%
d. Acquaintances: 35.1%
e. Co-workers: 19.4%
12. How comfortable are Americans with Oral?
Ans: By the age of 25, almost 80% men and about 75% women have received oral from their partners. However, before the age of 25, the stats are actually reversed with about 70% women and 65% men having received oral from their partners.
13. Do Americans indulge in pleasuring each other?... Mutually I mean!
Ans: First of all, let us understand how many of them indulge in pleasuring themselves when they are alone.
So the stats stand as below:
Age: 14-17 years
Men: 75%
Women: 45%
Age: 18-24 years
Men: 80%
Women: 65%
Age: 25-30 years
Men: 85%
Women: 73%
As compared to this, the stats seem relatively way lower when it comes to carrying out the act of pleasuring with a partner. The partner can also be of the same gender in these percentages mentioned below.
Age: 14-17 years
Men: 18%
Women: 20%
Age: 18-24 years
Men: 45%
Women: 38%
Age: 25-30 years
Men: 50%
Women: 50%
14. What are the favorite playing styles for American couples?
Ans: In sequence from the top favorite to the least, here's the list
-- Man Over
This one still remains at the top of the charts! It is also pretty common around the world!
-- Woman Over
Well, the society is male-dominated and funnily even in this respect. However this style is soon becoming a favorite because it helps them last longer!
-- From Behind
This one's risen after the growth of the internet. Almost 30% men and 26% women have their thumbs up for this one!
-- Reverse Style
Merely 8% of the guys and 3% of the girls said they would enjoy this style as opposed to the other ones!
-- Sideways & Standing Style
These are the least favorite. This is primarily because most Americans are non-athletic and this style requires some serious effort! However, world over too, these styles are the least popular!
15. How many Americans climax regularly?
Ans: 85% American men and 65% American women
The world average stands at 64% & 30% respectively.
So, there is a huge leap beyond the average statistics that the world has! In fact, in case of American women, the figures are more than double of the world average! Wow!
16. What is the number of Americans who have Extramarital Encounters?
Ans: About 35% American men and 26% American women have engaged in extramarital encounters at least once during their marriage. The numbers might seem pleasingly low to some of us reading this! But a highly conservative and church-going America also exists, which seems to be on its best behavior during its married life!
17. How many American couples are Satisfied with their Sex Lives?
Ans: There seem to be different grades of satisfaction and it was a good idea to ask some questions to get a better understanding…
-- Enjoyed it a great deal: 70%
-- Very satisfied: 50%
-- Found it very exciting: 36%
-- Traditional & conservative view: 55%
-- Are adventurous: 42%
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Indian Sex Life - 2
Compiled by: Dr. Srivatsa
Place: Bombay, India
This survey about Indian couples is continued from here... A complete entertainer of a survey which has growing curiosity through the country, it brings to you some amazing and some shocking revelations as compiled by Dr. Srivatsa from Bombay.
It might be interesting for you to find out where you stand as an Indian individual or as an Indian couple! If you aren't Indian, just figure out how your lifestyle is placed relatively!
It might be interesting for you to find out where you stand as an Indian individual or as an Indian couple! If you aren't Indian, just figure out how your lifestyle is placed relatively!
You are currently on the page displaying Part 2 of the Indian Sex Life. Use the links below to jump to other parts.
Indian Sex Life - Part 2
9. Are Indian couples adventurous when it comes to trying unique positions, trying out different places, experimenting, etc.
Ans: Lately, Indians have opened up substantially in trying out some really adventurous and rarely experimented positions. Indians rank in the top 5 possibly in this respect.
The reserved civil society in India limits its people from being too adventurous in trying different places. The Indian woman being relatively shy as compared to her western counterparts, an Indian couple experiments far lesser.
10. How many Indians have Fantasies?
Ans: Indians have opened up in a large way to let interesting fantasies creep into their lives. At least close to 80 percent or more on a conservative note have some sort of a fantasy.
Indians have done quite a fair bit by now - inside cars, dirty talking, lonely places, trying out scandalous inner-wear, using tools and toys... the list is endless.
11. How comfortable are Indians with Oral?
Ans: Hardly 40% of Indian couples are open to it!
The numbers have grown gradually though since the 90s. Its relatively very new to the current people of India. Reality is, it is being revisited by Indians. It will take a while till they open up to it and make it one of the regular activities.
12. Do Indians indulge in pleasuring each other?... Mutually I mean!
Ans: Rarely!
Again, its the internet which is going to open this door!
13. What are the favourite playing styles for Indian couples?
Ans: In sequence from the top favourite to the least, here's the list
-- Man Over
This is how most of them start... which is also pretty common around the world
-- From Behind
This one's risen after the growth of the internet
-- Woman Over
Well, the society is male-dominated and funnily even in this respect. However this style is soon becoming a favourite because it helps last longer
-- Sitting (like on a chair, sofa, etc.)
On the lower side due to lack of privacy outside bedrooms
-- Sideways & Standing Style
These are the least favourite. This is primarily because of the non-athletic and relatively weak physical structures of Indian men. However, world over too, these styles are the least popular!
14. How many Indians climax regularly?
Ans: 48-52% Indian men 25% Indian women
The world average is 64% & 30% respectively.
Indians are way below the grade. More intensive education is required!
15. What is the number of Indians who have Extramarital Encounters?
Ans: Only about 7-9% Pleasingly low!
But there are 2 really scary facts here. First, the number has been on the rise. Second, India has a large number of HIV/AIDS afflicted people. So… you can draw your conclusions!
16. How many Indian couples are Satisfied with their Sex Lives ?
Ans: Indians top the list of being the most satisfied. The world average is less than 50%, but in India, more than 85% are satisfied with their sex lives.
You are currently on the page displaying Part 2 of the Indian Sex Life. Use the links below to jump to other parts.
Whats up Daddy?
Secret by: Jim
Place: Teaneck, New Jersey, USA
I live with my dad and I am 16.
I was glad to receive my sister-in-law Sheila, her little daughter and Sheila's brother Ronald this April. We were gonna play host to them for a vacation we all decided to spend together. Her husband who is my elder brother was gonna join us within three days because he was at New York for business.
That evening, Ronald who is almost my age and I went out to Burger Master's. Dad was working at the hospital and was gonna be home before us. Sheila and her daughter chose to wait back home and skip Burger Master's.
Ronald & I had a nice meal and returned home at 9. My keys couldn't unlock the door to our house. I kept trying thinking it was jammed, but it didn't open. I called dad on his cell, but he didn't answer.
After quite a bit of struggle, knocking the door and calling out from outside the house, the door finally opened.
Dad and Sheila were both at the door. The look on their face, their clothes and the odour could totally say they were doing it. The little kid had gone off to sleep. The entire house was dark with no lights. They wore such an embarrassed look on their faces. Worst was that the idiots couldn't even dispose off the condom packet. Ronald & I knew exactly what had happened. But we both were so shocked that we didn't know what to say.
I went up to my room that night and I felt sick. How could dad do that to bro? I can imagine Sheila & bro are probably having some problems with their sex. Does it mean you fall that low? It was pathetic...sick! I left home the next morning and hitch hiked away for a month. I couldn't stand in front of bro and not tell him what had happened... nor could I create a scene by telling him because it would only destroy the peace at home.
I just hope dad & Sheila realize it was a mistake and don't be so foolish & weak ever again... "Bro I am sorry, but it was really not worth sharing it with you. I know you are mad at me for having left before you even came home... I'll be there next week to see you at your place."
I was glad to receive my sister-in-law Sheila, her little daughter and Sheila's brother Ronald this April. We were gonna play host to them for a vacation we all decided to spend together. Her husband who is my elder brother was gonna join us within three days because he was at New York for business.
That evening, Ronald who is almost my age and I went out to Burger Master's. Dad was working at the hospital and was gonna be home before us. Sheila and her daughter chose to wait back home and skip Burger Master's.
Ronald & I had a nice meal and returned home at 9. My keys couldn't unlock the door to our house. I kept trying thinking it was jammed, but it didn't open. I called dad on his cell, but he didn't answer.
After quite a bit of struggle, knocking the door and calling out from outside the house, the door finally opened. Dad and Sheila were both at the door. The look on their face, their clothes and the odour could totally say they were doing it. The little kid had gone off to sleep. The entire house was dark with no lights. They wore such an embarrassed look on their faces. Worst was that the idiots couldn't even dispose off the condom packet. Ronald & I knew exactly what had happened. But we both were so shocked that we didn't know what to say.
I went up to my room that night and I felt sick. How could dad do that to bro? I can imagine Sheila & bro are probably having some problems with their sex. Does it mean you fall that low? It was pathetic...sick! I left home the next morning and hitch hiked away for a month. I couldn't stand in front of bro and not tell him what had happened... nor could I create a scene by telling him because it would only destroy the peace at home.
I just hope dad & Sheila realize it was a mistake and don't be so foolish & weak ever again... "Bro I am sorry, but it was really not worth sharing it with you. I know you are mad at me for having left before you even came home... I'll be there next week to see you at your place."
Just One Solution to Insecurity
Advice by: Michelle
Place: Little Rock, Arkansas, USA
Lets start with one thing: Human Beings are a species which is polygamous. I have said this before. We all have to accept this fact because it changes the perspective in which you look at your relationship.
The kind of environments which we live in today makes it so easy for us to stray. At the same time, technology has spread its wings so far that spying is way easier than straying quietly. But does it mean that we set traps or set alarms to ring when we suspect things going out of control?
Experiences & studies say that relationships which tread the path of suspicion eventually lead to an outburst of internally accumulated feelings. The accumulation of feelings is unhealthy physiologically and the outburst usually leads to violent responses.
Now before we understand what is the reason that leads to a person a straying, lets think about what makes two people connect. I would say its physical attraction, stimulating conversations, common interests, emotional entanglements, association for long periods and some more to add to the usual list that we all know commonly.
Really speaking, when we connect, its not that "love" showers upon us. We chemically respond to the flow of substances in our body. The society we live in further binds on us the necessity of commitment. So under the effect of the substances and social binding, we end up living together for a rather long time with our partners.
Having understood this, its rather easy to understand that the way A & B click is nothing supernatural. They aren't struck by a comet really. Similarly, A could click with C and B could click with D. That's what eventually leads to straying. Depending on how strong your relationship is with your partner, you either sway this way or that way. Now its not really a "sin", its merely the internal make-up of human beings that makes us behave in that manner.
Now just the one solution to this: "Communication!" Thats the magic word. If you feel things are going wrong, responses from your partner are unusual, the love seems reduced or even the smallest of things is turning into a quarrel, you have to make the bold step. You have to for a moment control your temper, let your ego down and keep cool. Communicate to your partner that the way things are going is messing up the entire build-up of a long time. Its investment from both sides thats going down the drain. Ask them what is it that they feel is missing or is it just that they slipped. Don't for a moment show that you are "pissed off" about it. It'll only cause your loved-one to conceal things from you. Talk about it and make it feel comfortable. Be like a parent dealing with a kid, but don't cause them to feel they have wronged. From there, you need to rebuild and every couple will have their own way of doing it.
If you are on the other end in this case, that means if you are the one who strayed, then just give it a thought-- "Is it really worth it?" Well, you must have had quarrels with your partner and maybe the sex isn't rocking enough, but have you explicitly communicated and made efforts to rebuild the pyramid? And if you think that everything is perfect, but you still strayed then forget about it. In either cases, just get back to the realization that while you traveled the journey, you came across another path. You walked on it and realized that it wouldn't take you all the way... Just turn back and get back where you were supposed to and carry on from there. Once you are back, its best to keep things to yourself. You don't necessarily need to share it with your partner. Just give them at extra love and they'll be surprised why you being so different, but they'll love it!
Speak, Communicate, Don't react & Accept!
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